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Sadness: A Reason to stay away from Reality

Today in this Fast Life, we get many reasons for being Sad. Be it the reason over work load and pressure, the reason related to our personal problems or the reason of losing someone close to us. Let's take an example to understand this: There is someone in our life who became a very important person, whom we loved very much but that person cheated us. Now that person who cheated us is happy in their life, maybe with someone whom they love but on the contrary we became Sad. Seeing us Sad, our loved one's also started worrying about us and they became sad. Our colleagues who are dependent on us for the work alloted to us got dissatisfied because we were not able to focus on our work. In reality, the person who cheated should have received the Punishment but here it is us who are punishing our own selves as well as everyone connected to our life. Aren't we keeping ourselves away from reality just because of someone's wrong doings? Another example can be related to our ...

Be a True Follower and a Good Leader

Are we a follower or a leader? We all know that a follower means following some person, their ideas, some rituals that we believe, the styles of our loved celebrities etc. And a leader means someone who tries to spread their ideologies amongst the people, tries to give knowledge to the people who are following them. By knowing this, everyone always think that they want to be a leader in the future where every other person follows them, praises them and tries to acknowledge them. But is this the real leader and a follower or are we just missing out something? Actually the truth is that every person falls in both the categories i.e. A leader as well as a follower. A person should be a follower of his observations. Observations that he did during his entire life cycle, observations that he did while working day and night, observations that he did while meeting new people. Observations means the things that a person don't just see but also try to understand it. When a person obs...

Recognizing The Truth

We all face a common issue in knowing the other person. At times, we cannot judge whether the other person is speaking truth or not. But we never try to understand why are we not able to take judgement in recognizing the truth. When we talk with any person, there are always 2 chances- The other person might be lying or the other person might be speaking truth. But how to recognize that person is the biggest question that needs to be answered. Truth is something that can be realized but lie is something that needs to be invented . Whenever a person lies, he creates a story to tell where he tries to cover all the facts in different manner and develops a new story which actually never happened. But when any person says truth, it's always natural. The whole story is exactly how he got to know i.e. the other person has experienced the story that he is portraying. So we can take our first judgement for knowing the truth by the story that he has experienced.  Next point that we need to ...

Traffic Sense- An Attitude towards Responsibility

Starting with the Stats, according to World Health Organization, 1.23 million people worldwide every year die due to traffic accidents that are taking place. That means the issue of traffic sense is quite more serious than Covid-19 as well. But if we try to think this with a different perspective then we can understand that the overall traffic sense is directly dependent upon our attitude towards taking responsibility of our own self as well as others who are connected with us. Let’s try to understand this in more detail by highlighting the attitudes in our regular life.  1. PATIENCE : We all might know that a person should have a good amount of Patience level for bringing any kind of solution. But we are losing our patience very easily. We have got that habit of reacting immediately without understanding the situation which will ultimately generate more problems rather than solving anything. This is directly related to the traffic sense that is required to solve the traffic prob...

Fear of Future

We all have fear inside us in different forms. Children have the fear about their upcoming school exams, students have fear about how to get a job after college, some parents have fear about their children leaving them alone even after raising them with utmost care and love and almost all of us fear about death at every moment of our life. But one thing to notice about fear is that it will be related to our future. And the only result that we gain out of fear is pain, depression, mental instability and separation. We are always in the fear of future, trying to secure the future with happiness, but we need to think over one point, is trying to secure our future happiness by giving up today's happiness viable? If we are not able to seize our today's happiness then how are we going to achieve our future happiness? Let's take an example to understand this. In 2010, you decided to secure something for your future by giving up some important thing/person from your life for some s...

Cycle of Self-Motivation

We always try to remain self-motivated , but are we aware of the ways to stay self-motivated?? Below mentioned is the cycle which will not only help you in self-motivation but also will help you in continuous development of your skills. 1. Knowledge 2. Planning 3. initiatives 4. Confidence 5. Change 6. Mastery 7. Satisfaction 8. Knowledge When we start taking interest in some sector, we start gaining knowledge by learning new things. This knowledge helps us in proper planning required for taking any initiative because we all know, to achieve success, proper step wise planning is required. Now we are ready to take our first step towards the planning that we have done i.e initiating towards execution. This will help us in gaining experience, also can improvise our plans from the mistakes we made while executing, ultimately gaining confidence over that sector. This confidence can help us in becoming stronger and thus feel the change that is required for our self-development. This developm...

Mind Psychology

In the previous “Borderline" article  (https://varunthakkar3.blogspot.com/2020/01/borderline.html?m=1)  we saw the effects of attachments which makes us cross the borderline where everything we read was related to mind, so it becomes important for us to understand what exactly mind is and how it works. Mind is not a physical part of body but it’s actually a spiritual part of brain where each and every activity is noted down and signals are given to every cell in the body for performing its functions. Mainly mind contains of 3 parts which are • Conscious mind • Subconscious mind • Superconscious mind Conscious mind and subconscious mind are like iceberg where the small portion floating above water which is the visible part is related to conscious part and the part which is not seen is related to the subconscious mind. Conscious mind gathers the information from the surroundings and this information is stored in the subconscious mind. Now whenever we need to act upon s...