Sadness: A Reason to stay away from Reality

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Today in this Fast Life, we get many reasons for being Sad. Be it the reason over work load and pressure, the reason related to our personal problems or the reason of losing someone close to us.


Let's take an example to understand this:

There is someone in our life who became a very important person, whom we loved very much but that person cheated us.

Now that person who cheated us is happy in their life, maybe with someone whom they love but on the contrary we became Sad. Seeing us Sad, our loved one's also started worrying about us and they became sad. Our colleagues who are dependent on us for the work alloted to us got dissatisfied because we were not able to focus on our work.

In reality, the person who cheated should have received the Punishment but here it is us who are punishing our own selves as well as everyone connected to our life.
Aren't we keeping ourselves away from reality just because of someone's wrong doings?

Another example can be related to our work. We were assigned a task but we failed in achieving our results. Now we start feeling demotivated and lose our confidence in performing other task. This leads us to being Sad and again we will keep our loved one's in worry and they will also be sad because of us.

These examples can help us in understanding that the reasons which we develop to keep our selves Sad gets developed as a Habit and keeps us away from completing the work that needs to be done. There was a time when we actively liked performing our tasks because we knew that this will help us in getting success in life. And now we are not even ready to perform our duties as a human.

Sadness always demotivates us, makes us feel low in life and ultimately we start feeling that we have a hard life and we can never achieve success in life.

But the truth is we have never tried to understand the true meaning of Success.

Success doesn't mean that we need to have much money, need to have a big house, a luxury car, fancy things, a beautiful partner, a smart family and a good position at work.
Infact, Success is a path of learning. Learning from our past mistakes, rectifying that mistakes and growing by again performing the failed tasks and ultimately achieving the success over that task which will lead to another goal of life.

A person should never stop growing. Be it the growth related to personal life of spending a relaxing time with the people we love to be together. Also be it the growth of our professional life where we take tasks, we perform,  we make mistakes , we understand that and we grow.

Rather than getting Sad in Hard times, we need to understand that hard times are only for us to rectify the mistakes that were done in the past and change ourselves accordingly to achieve success out of it.

We expect others to change for the Hard Times that we are facing but the reality is to understand that the change required is within our own self and if we change, if we understand that no one can affect our life and no one can stop us from achieving the true success, then the word Sadness becomes a myth and we can finally start accepting the Reality of Life which is to remain happy and keep cherishing with the things and the people that we have around us. 

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