KINDNESS OR STRICTNESS???
There is always a question inside our mind when we are communicating or explaining something to someone i.e. How should I behave? Should I be kind in my speech so that the other person doesn’t feel hurt? Or should I be firm and tell them strictly to stop doing things that are unwanted? When we are too kind to someone, the other person feels valued and safe. They prefer to stay around us. But what if someone is on the wrong path and we keep explaining with kindness every time. Will he listen? At first, yes. It may create a positive impact. But once it becomes a regular pattern, he may stop paying attention. He gets used to the words, but not to the change. Let’s take an example... Someone addicted to bad habits like drinking, smoking, or being on the phone all the time. In the beginning, our kind approach may affect him. Because of emotional bonding, he may realize his mistake once, twice, or even thrice. But if this becomes a regular cycle, will kindness be effective? No, kindness...