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NO MORE EXCUSES!!!!

First of a Very Happy Diwali to all the readers. When you hand over your 10000 hard earned money to your friend and he burns that money within a moment, how will you feel??? That's the exact same scenario which is created while burning crackers. You pay to the shop, and burn that in the sky. But yeah of course we won't accept this fact because we humans are experts in one particular thing, and that's making excuses. "We just burn crackers once in a year" "Firing crackers bring happiness in our lives" "Children get flattered by playing with crackers" "We just burn 100 rupees crackers not more than that" Just read 2 days before on some social media where someone is saying that the government has problem with firing crackers for one day and what about the rest 365 days where traffic and everything causes pollution. First of all, do you really think that only air and noise pollution are the problem by firing crackers?? If yes then I guess...

A New Trend- Foreign Studies

Studying in prestigious college like Oxford University, Stanford University, Harvard University and many more is always a dream and a proud feeling for anyone. But how many of us are really able to study in that kind of universities??? Negligible.   Still we go there to study in the private and state universities. I am not here to demotivate anyone going abroad but just trying to clear some facts which we usually don’t think. Talking about the major reasons for going abroad to study: Easy availability of Green Card and PR . Nowadays migration has become somewhat difficult then before due to which going to study in abroad university can easily result you into getting the PR of that country. Freedom - Freedom from family pressures, freedom to live life on your own terms & do anything at anytime with no-one around to scold you. And the main reason due to which parents are also encouraging their child to go abroad is Money as we all have that mentality that he...

Lets learn from bollywood- SHAADI MAIN ZAROOR AANA

A 2017 movie, starring Rajkumar Rao as Satyendra and Kriti Kharbanda as Aarti is based on an arrange marriage where both starrers start loving each other before marriage and yet Aarti runs away from that marriage. Movie starts with a meeting arranged between Satyendra and Aarti for an arranged based marriage in which they have to finalize if they like each other or not. Now let’s assume a simple thing that if you go to meet someone for the first time, professionally or even personally how can you judge that person in a single meet?? It has become like an interview- ask the questions related to each other, judge them based on their answers but we all forget that we cannot judge any person in a single meet (to know more about first impression and judegments click on the link here-  https://varunthakkar3.blogspot.com/2018/04/first-impression-is-last-impression_6.html ) and even if we meet, there is always something that we miss out to share and in the flow of impressing...

BE LIKE THE SHOES......

We always try to learn from someone but forget that not only a person but there are many things around us which try to teach us many things. One among them is Shoes that we wear around and things that can be learnt from Shoes are:- We can adjust the laces of our Shoes (tight or loose) according the requirement and in the similar way we should adjust our own selves in whatever situation we are without being impatient. Whichever brand or attractive our shoes be, they are always below us likewise we should also be down to earth with no ego letting us drive away from humanity. However costly the shoes may be, they are just there to add the attractiveness of a person wearing it. And in similar way, however rich we may be, don’t ever forget that this richness is to try and go help others rather than showing ego to make them feel inferior.   Shoes are always useful in pairs and a single side shoe is worthless, in similar way we should never forget that without support of our ...

Am I a Successful Person??

Earning money is very important for each one of us as without money nothing is possible in today’s world. And why do we earn money? To satisfy our needs? To satisfy families needs? To lead somewhat luxurious life by buying some of the luxuries? But do we ever get satisfied by what we have or we just want more and more? If we are able to buy a Honda City car, we want a Mercedes, if we are able to buy a Flat enough for our family; we want to buy a Bungalow, then a farm house and thus there is no end. And I am not saying to have dreams of achieving more is bad, of course everyone should have this dream but at what cost?? You are earning but can’t share time with family, you are earning but are always engaged in your work thoughts and what will your earning be of any good if you can’t be a part of family mentally? Let’s understand this by an example of a movie- There was movie released named Baar Baar Dekho, starring Siddharth Malhotra and Katrina Kaif. It was a flop movie but...

Let's learn from bollywood - The most influential movies

There was a friend of mine, having a good helping nature who belonged to a low-class family. His mother was suffering from paralysis and father worked hard to fulfil all the family needs. But unfortunately his father had to stop working due to his health issues. So now my friend was the only one left to earn for his family. One wrong thing about him was that he had no control over his anger. Time being he met a girl whom he started loving so much that he could do anything for her. And in return that girl also liked him and so they both got into a serious relationship. But as time passed that girl started demanding things like to leave his parents after marriage. In all this he started having habit of drinking. These made his behaviour even worse and non-controllable anger. These affected him in his job and also got fired. Being jobless and having no money to give to the family, he started getting more and more depressed. And all these had came at its peak time during June 2013, ju...

LET'S LEARN FROM BOLLYWOOD- GAME OVER

Taapsee Pannu’s first Tamil movie revolves around the story of Swapna, a game developer who had a very dark and creepy year of 2018, where the movie starts with a girl being followed by someone and gets beheaded with body being burnt. PLOT AND IT’S MESSAGE:- First half of the movie shows the story of Swapna, who got raped one year ago. The movie is trying to show us the mental state of a woman who got raped in darkness and how the phobia of darkness takes her body control which neither allows her to live properly nor die peacefully.  We all always try to create a big issue against rape cases but we never try to understand that creating all these issues actually is making that woman weaker which is clearly depicted in this movie where Swapna was sitting in a cafĂ© and 2 men were starring at her and comparing her with someone in their mobile and laughing. After seeking into their mobile, Swapna came to know that her pictures of being raped had got viral in social media...