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Fate Vs Destiny- Know the True Difference

In my last blog " Let's Redefine Our Own Destiny ", I mentioned about how the actions of our past lead us to where we are today. In simple words, A journey from Actions to Reactions is defined as Destiny. But sometimes we misunderstand our Destiny with Fate. Many of us are not aware of the Difference between Destiny and Fate.    A predetermined course of Action which is decided by a natural order in the Universe is known as Fate. In simple words, A journey of an individual which starts inside the womb of mother, growing of that child from kid to an Adult, performing his duties based upon his doings and then ultimately he dies, might be at a young age or might be at an older age. This is the course of action predefined by the Universe and so it is defined as Fate. But During his journey of life, whatever life makes him face and whatever actions are taken by him are the results of Destiny.  A Destiny is something that has been influenced by our own actions or Actions done b

Let's Redefine Our Own Destiny

Let's start by understanding the meaning of Destiny " Everything that is happening in our life or something that is fixed and going to happen in the future means Destiny." But my first question is to ask our own selves that Whatever we are doing or achieving, whatever that is happening in our life isn't because of some of the events that took place where our life was involved and made us what we are today? There is a famous saying "We will achieve what we have done" which can be understood by The Law of Karma that " All the actions have their equal Reactions" Meaning that whatever we do today has a reaction towards that action in the future.  So it is not the fate that leads or does anything but it is our own action of past which has reacted today and kept us in a situation of what we are today.  Let's understand this with a common example of Mobile Addiction: A 5-6 year old child today doesn't eat without taking a mobile phone to play game

Sadness: A Reason to stay away from Reality

Today in this Fast Life, we get many reasons for being Sad. Be it the reason over work load and pressure, the reason related to our personal problems or the reason of losing someone close to us. Let's take an example to understand this: There is someone in our life who became a very important person, whom we loved very much but that person cheated us. Now that person who cheated us is happy in their life, maybe with someone whom they love but on the contrary we became Sad. Seeing us Sad, our loved one's also started worrying about us and they became sad. Our colleagues who are dependent on us for the work alloted to us got dissatisfied because we were not able to focus on our work. In reality, the person who cheated should have received the Punishment but here it is us who are punishing our own selves as well as everyone connected to our life. Aren't we keeping ourselves away from reality just because of someone's wrong doings? Another example can be related to our

Be a True Follower and a Good Leader

Are we a follower or a leader? We all know that a follower means following some person, their ideas, some rituals that we believe, the styles of our loved celebrities etc. And a leader means someone who tries to spread their ideologies amongst the people, tries to give knowledge to the people who are following them. By knowing this, everyone always think that they want to be a leader in the future where every other person follows them, praises them and tries to acknowledge them. But is this the real leader and a follower or are we just missing out something? Actually the truth is that every person falls in both the categories i.e. A leader as well as a follower. A person should be a follower of his observations. Observations that he did during his entire life cycle, observations that he did while working day and night, observations that he did while meeting new people. Observations means the things that a person don't just see but also try to understand it. When a person obs

Recognizing The Truth

We all face a common issue in knowing the other person. At times, we cannot judge whether the other person is speaking truth or not. But we never try to understand why are we not able to take judgement in recognizing the truth. When we talk with any person, there are always 2 chances- The other person might be lying or the other person might be speaking truth. But how to recognize that person is the biggest question that needs to be answered. Truth is something that can be realized but lie is something that needs to be invented . Whenever a person lies, he creates a story to tell where he tries to cover all the facts in different manner and develops a new story which actually never happened. But when any person says truth, it's always natural. The whole story is exactly how he got to know i.e. the other person has experienced the story that he is portraying. So we can take our first judgement for knowing the truth by the story that he has experienced.  Next point that we need to

Traffic Sense- An Attitude towards Responsibility

Starting with the Stats, according to World Health Organization, 1.23 million people worldwide every year die due to traffic accidents that are taking place. That means the issue of traffic sense is quite more serious than Covid-19 as well. But if we try to think this with a different perspective then we can understand that the overall traffic sense is directly dependent upon our attitude towards taking responsibility of our own self as well as others who are connected with us. Let’s try to understand this in more detail by highlighting the attitudes in our regular life.  1. PATIENCE : We all might know that a person should have a good amount of Patience level for bringing any kind of solution. But we are losing our patience very easily. We have got that habit of reacting immediately without understanding the situation which will ultimately generate more problems rather than solving anything. This is directly related to the traffic sense that is required to solve the traffic problems

Fear of Future

We all have fear inside us in different forms. Children have the fear about their upcoming school exams, students have fear about how to get a job after college, some parents have fear about their children leaving them alone even after raising them with utmost care and love and almost all of us fear about death at every moment of our life. But one thing to notice about fear is that it will be related to our future. And the only result that we gain out of fear is pain, depression, mental instability and separation. We are always in the fear of future, trying to secure the future with happiness, but we need to think over one point, is trying to secure our future happiness by giving up today's happiness viable? If we are not able to seize our today's happiness then how are we going to achieve our future happiness? Let's take an example to understand this. In 2010, you decided to secure something for your future by giving up some important thing/person from your life for some s