Let's Redefine Our Own Destiny

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Let's start by understanding the meaning of Destiny

"Everything that is happening in our life or something that is fixed and going to happen in the future means Destiny."


But my first question is to ask our own selves that Whatever we are doing or achieving, whatever that is happening in our life isn't because of some of the events that took place where our life was involved and made us what we are today?


There is a famous saying "We will achieve what we have done" which can be understood by The Law of Karma that "All the actions have their equal Reactions"

Meaning that whatever we do today has a reaction towards that action in the future. 

So it is not the fate that leads or does anything but it is our own action of past which has reacted today and kept us in a situation of what we are today. 


Let's understand this with a common example of Mobile Addiction:

A 5-6 year old child today doesn't eat without taking a mobile phone to play games and his parents are complaining to others for the same. Today they are asking for solutions on how to make their child eat without having a mobile phone in his hand.

The story will be relatable to many as this is a common story of every household. There are 2 basic reasons for the same:


1. The Mobile Phone for the first time was handed over by the parents to their child when he was 2-3 years old so that he doesn't annoy them and peacefully eats by watching mobile phones. 

This action made the parents feel comfortable at that time due to which they started repeating the same thing which made the child addicted towards the mobile. 

So it was the action of the Parents which developed the reaction from their child in the form of Mobile Addiction. 


2. In the childhood, The Child learns a lot just by seeing what their Parents are doing, how they work, eat, love and care and if the Parents are regularly involved in the Mobile Phones during their free time or they doesn't like to sit together as a Family, then that child will get developed in a similar manner because his learnings are from the Parent's doings.

The action of the Parents developed a reaction as an understanding in that child and made him similar to his Parents in the future.


Destiny as defined to us in the form of fate is the only reason we keep comparing our life with others.

1 bad thing that will happen to us will make us start thinking over the bad life, the bad fate that we have facing in the name of God and start blaming the God for the same. 

But we need to understand that the bad thing that is happening to us is actually bad or is the time developing us for something better in the future?


But before this, we need to understand that the bad thing that is happening to us is actually bad or is it just the comparison of life that we are doing with others which is developing our thoughts in a Negative manner?


Let's understand this with an example:

We sometimes feel that some people without any hardwork, they are getting many things, they are LUCKY to get it but we are an unlucky charm who are working really hard but still we are not able to achieve.


When an individual takes birth, their growth makes them powerful in something and weak in something which can be defined as their Strength and Weaknesses.

These Strengths and Weaknesses are based upon the upbringing by their family, the friends and colleagues that they are surrounded with and finally their own interest. 

If we try to find those strengths amongst our own selves and develop our future goals based upon that Strengths then surely we will start achieving our goals faster than the other work that we do in which we are not having much interest. 


Let's make our mind clear that the strength we have is the tool that is destined to us to achieve something, to develop our own selves and to work upon our better destiny.


So let's not define our Destiny in the name of the Fate and realise that it is our own doings which are developing our Destiny for the Future and ultimately that will only define our Future Life.

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