Fear of Future

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We all have fear inside us in different forms. Children have the fear about their upcoming school exams, students have fear about how to get a job after college, some parents have fear about their children leaving them alone even after raising them with utmost care and love and almost all of us fear about death at every moment of our life.

But one thing to notice about fear is that it will be related to our future. And the only result that we gain out of fear is pain, depression, mental instability and separation.


We are always in the fear of future, trying to secure the future with happiness, but we need to think over one point, is trying to secure our future happiness by giving up today's happiness viable? If we are not able to seize our today's happiness then how are we going to achieve our future happiness?


Let's take an example to understand this.

In 2010, you decided to secure something for your future by giving up some important thing/person from your life for some self-desire. Today when we think of that particular incident, do you think was it worth sacrificing that important thing/person from your life? 

And today are we really happy or again we are caught up in the same loop of achieving some new kind of happiness for our future?


Fear is nothing but an imagination and imagination can never be a reality. If we feel that we are weak at some point, then the only reason for having that weakness is due to the fear that is created which is not allowing us to overcome that weakness.


Of course we should know how to overcome any fear and keep securing our future by taking some wise steps, but for that giving up today’s happiness or getting separated from your loved ones, going somewhere far away just thinking of getting enough wealth in the future is not feasible. We should always try to achieve future happiness by adjusting in a way where we should never sacrifice someone today and also we keep our future secured. Or else there will be one day where you will have many things but you wont have anyone to enjoy with. 


So its time to face our fears, get over our weaknesses by observing the mistakes done by us in the past and learning it today in the present which will automatically improve and secure our future along with all the happiness and satisfaction and you will achieve the success in real terms. 


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