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Relationship or Friend? Who are more important at different phases of life...

(Below stated article is based on ideal conditions and not specific to particular person) Friendship and relationship are two different things with their own time period. Also we can say that Relationship is the 2 nd step of friendship. 1)     TEENAGE TIME ( AGE:- 15-20 YEARS) In teenage period, it is more important to build a strong friendship rather than focusing on boyfriend/girlfriend. Why??? At this period of our life, we start to have some sense for making up a strong friendship and a group to enjoy. Now if we directly jump to relationship instead of concentrating on friends, the flaws that we may face are:- ·          To build and maintain a good relationship, it requires some dedication of time and as teenage period is the core time of studies (10 th & 12 th ) our free time totally goes in maintaining it and can’t dedicate more time towards friendship. From this we can say that we b...

Trust and Its Issues

TRUST means relying on someone’s judgements or promises. Trust is a step-wise and time-acquiring process based on the behaviour of the second person. Trust can be attributed to relationships between two persons, nations or person-technology. Trust is result of compassion and love. When we truly feel for the other person’s likes and dislikes, mutual understanding is created between us which results in trust. Trust is created when we have a belief in something or confident expectation about something. We all go to temples or pray to god as we have a belief that god will always listen to us and help us sooner or later and so we trust him for letting us out of our situation. We know that our parents have more experience of life than us so we trust their judgements for us on being right or wrong. Talking about the trust issues created between two people, its major reason is to have a competitive nature . Keeping a competitive mind and always thinking abo...

First impression is the Last impression????

“First impression is the last impression” Wherever we go, we always hear the above given advice by our mentor or parents or guardians. But is it really true? How can anyone judge completely by just meeting for the first time? Let’s take up some examples. We met a person for the first time. The person that we met was not in a good mood because of his personal issues and so he behaved badly and didn’t communicate well. Does that mean he is a bad guy as his first impression wasn’t that good? A rich person is painting walls on his own at home. The paint that he brought got over and so he went to take up new paint in the same dirty clothes.   The shopkeeper asks him," Do you have enough money to buy this paint?"    The first impression of this rich guy for that shopkeeper was totally the opposite of what he was. So can we rely on this kind of first impressions? Judging a person is not an immediate thing but a process which takes some time. Most of your...