The 2 most Dreadful C's- Comparison and Competition
“He got 92%, why can’t you get that??” “How dumb are you that you can’t even compete with your friend??” “He got his girlfriend so easily why am I not getting any??” We all see these kind of comparisons done regularly in front of us by our parents, relatives or amongst our friends. Comparison results in competition which creates many kind of unbalances in anyone’s life like trust issues, depression, frustration, ego, etc. We are definitely into a competitive world but finally it is our choice to be a part of that competition or to lead a normal life. Let’s talk with an example- You are going on a highway in Maruti Alto with your wife and children, enjoying every moment with your family and suddenly a BMW car cuts down your way overtaking you. Seeing this, your mind also starts creating desires to overtake that car and so you start driving at a high speed. Driving at high speed needs maximum concentration on road and traffic and so you won’t be able to enjoy wit...